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Anonymous |
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Jun 29 2006, 4:56 PM EDT I think it's a combination of both fear of rejection and simply just not being that into someone. If a guy is very attracted to you, chances are hes also intimidated by your stunning good looks or fabulous personality. He may have a hard time approaching you because he is scared of rejection. I think girls need to give guys breaks sometimes and make the first move (even if its just a hello in the elevator) to show them that they just might have a chance. BUT men still should follow through and do the asking...its a guys job right? 11 out of 15 found this valuable. Do you? |
 kathyschwadel |
I don't think it's the man's job. Nor is it the woman's.
Aug 15 2007, 10:52 AM EDT It just needs to get done by someone! There are all kinds of reasons why men don't approach women they find attractive--from fear of rejection, to disinterest, to a bad day, to believing she's taken, to totally missing her signals that she's interested in him. In researching my book Grab Your Tiger: how 110 Women Made the First Move to Capture the Men of their Dreams I found that 3 out of 4 men miss a female's flirting signals. The point is that SOMEONE needs to make that first move. 5 out of 5 found this valuable. Do you? |
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Joygirl910 Joygirl910 |
RE: I don't think it's the man's job. Nor is it the woman's.
Aug 16 2007, 7:04 PM EDT I totally agree. People can decide once they meet if it works for them. Somebody needs to get off the pot. Why not women--at least half the time? Do you find this valuable? |