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smilinginnyc |
Never Dated 25 years old
Oct 18 2008, 10:00 AM EDT
My problem… I have never ever dated in my life. Is that unusual? I am 25 years old and never kissed, fell in LOVE, or had intimate relations (never performed or received ANY sexual acts) with a man, nor with a woman. Even though I never had intimate relations with anyone I am a heterosexual, the sight of educated, good looking, well-mannered men appeal to me. I have never had desires for women; it just wasn’t my thing. In essence, I just need advice as to whether or not this is a normal occurrence. If it is abnormal, what can I do to change? Help me pleaseSingle, Educated, and Alone 2 out of 2 found this valuable. Do you? |
Yourdesire |
1. RE: Never Dated 25 years old
Oct 19 2008, 1:28 PM EDT
"My problem… I have never ever dated in my life. Is that unusual? I am 25 years old and never kissed, fell in LOVE, or had intimate relations (never performed or received ANY sexual acts) with a man, nor with a woman. Even though I never had intimate relations with anyone I am a heterosexual, the sight of educated, good looking, well-mannered men appeal to me. I have never had desires for women; it just wasn’t my thing. In essence, I just need advice as to whether or not this is a normal occurrence. If it is abnormal, what can I do to change? Help me pleaseIt's not unusual. I waited until thirty to do it. You need to find out where you stand on you definition of sex and whats right and whats wrong socially, and how you personally feel. 2 out of 2 found this valuable. Do you? |
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Velmieux |
2. RE: Never Dated 25 years old
Dec 31 2008, 2:21 AM EST
I do not not think it is unusual, but I think it is not unnormal, as normal as all of us healthy normal neurotics; anyway, such discussions involve general and specific considerations of an individual, inter alia, but I think that it begins with and ends with Ethics. Also, sexual relations (intercourse, etc.) should be distinguished from other sexual/amorous relations/passions, these appropriate concerns should be thought of more superficially than popularly conceived, I say, and examined from there. You say that the "well-manicured" man (lol) is appealing, and yet you stand alone; truthfully, you must seek your selfish interests and make mistakes and take an unbearable leap into ambiguity, if only becuase you are human; and if you are not led by the spark o fthose selfish feelings (becuase you say you've never been in love--really? a circumstance pathetic to believe--), then you should re-evaluate your self, as yourdesire (these names are too ridiculous) said, or create a (not too) rational schema that details what you WANT, because you really do want something, do you?, and because you say you want to change and are alone. It is not so diffucult to change but the real difficulty is if you do genuinely change, but many more things to consider. Also, it was odd to me that you mentioned women, I would have understood without it, but that you reference it is interesting. Any way, I think that, even if you were socially inept, it is normal, but now you must be careful of complacency, but, again I can't help you there. I think it follows in relations: naive, pure, conform, corrupt, condescening, complacent, composed, and repeat the last three--maybe add in contempt for fun!, i guess you could put in (non)chalant, chaste for the first two to make it all Cs. Do you find this valuable? |
nmatrix |
3. RE: Never Dated 25 years old
Sep 25 2009, 6:51 AM EDT
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