A guy has asked me out for a dinner date, we have been chatting on msn and have talked a few times, it all started about a month ago when he saw a pic of mine on FB, he sent me an email telling me what an eye-catcher I am then he asked me if I was seeing anyone if not then we should go out for dinner one day, I accepted his invitation. we used to work for the same company back in the day and I used to have a crush on him but I was in a relationship back then hence, we never had the chance to talk, after our first conversation I found out that he too had a crush on me but was told I was involved.
It’s been a month and in this month he has asked if we were still on for dinner twice and still he hasn't yet come up with a simple dinner plan, there's always an excuse (travelling, a cold, MBA class.. etc) he called 2 days ago when I had returned his call he was seeing a friend for coffee and said he would call back later that evening and he never did! We haven't spoken since and no sign of him asking me out for dinner. I don't know what sick game he's playing but I know I don't have time for this. What do I do and how do I ever tell him I’m not interested anymore, do I wait until he calls back if he ever calls back or do I just ignore his calls/emails when he does call/email.
Note: i really like this guy but i don't know if he is worth it

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