Story goes as followed. There is this guy i know and have known for awhile, were pretty good friends. We also both know we have an interest in each other for some time now. Yet he moves at the speed of the turtle. Were stuck in between friends and couple. Its somewhere in a limbo and I'm at a lost of what to do. Should i ask him out straight forward, try bringing up the subject or wait for him to do it? Were also around the same age of almost 14.

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A guy has asked me out for a dinner date, we have been chatting on msn and have talked a few times, it all started about a month ago when he saw a pic of mine on FB, he sent me an email telling me what an eye-catcher I am then he asked me if I was seeing anyone if not then we should go out for dinner one day, I accepted his invitation. we used to work for the same company back in the day and I used to have a crush on him but I was in a relationship back then hence, we never had the chance to talk, after our first conversation I found out that he too had a crush on me but was told I was involved.
It’s been a month and in this month he has asked if we were still on for dinner twice and still he hasn't yet come up with a simple dinner plan, there's always an excuse (travelling, a cold, MBA class.. etc) he called 2 days ago when I had returned his call he was seeing a friend for coffee and said he would call back later that evening and he never did! We haven't spoken since and no sign of him asking me out for dinner. I don't know what sick game he's playing but I know I don't have time for this. What do I do and how do I ever tell him I’m not interested anymore, do I wait until he calls back if he ever calls back or do I just ignore his calls/emails when he does call/email.
Note: i really like this guy but i don't know if he is worth it

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