We've all had them-- first dates. Some are horrors, some are perfect!

I met this man online and we talked for about 1 month before setting up a first date, we really got to know each other oh so I thought. The first date was setup and he wanted to do something really nice and surprise me so I said ok. The date went really well, we went to see butterflies then barnes and noble walk around then out to dinner. The date went well with a good night kiss, then he asked if we could watch a movie the next night, I said ok and when he got there he said lets pop the movie in. We watched the movie and talked about actors & movies and nothing else... as soon as it was over, he basically ran out of my house. Then I get an email the next day saying "He flees when he gets nervous and he felt that I was pushing expectations on him on our second date." Again we chatted about movies and actors at what point could anyone put expectations on someone? Needless to say 3 weeks later he dropped me an IM and proceeded to list everything I did wrong on the date. Nothing he said made any sense.. it was like we were on 2 very different dates. So even though we talked for about 1 month prior to setting up the date, he was definately not the same person. I think he may have had a few people in his head.